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Not Going From Irrelevancy 1.0 to Irrelevancy 2.0

At the half-way mark of 2007 I wanted to circle back around to the inaugural message of the year.  I hope you will pardon the transcription of part of the first sermon of the year, but I think it is an important reminder about what the Lord is doing in our community.  As you will see in the message the source for the facts and concepts related to Yuppie 2.0 come from the December 2006 edition of Details magazine.  I looked for the copy I bought at the news stand to give better quotes and credits to the authors and their particular articles.  I couldn’t find it, so I wanted to apologize before hand to the original authors for not keeping better notes on their work.  I take no credit for it.  I simply juggled several different articles to make a coherent story for a sermon illustration that I never intended to post.    If you want to read the original you have to get a back issue.  While I’m not a fan of these types of magazines at all, these articles were really insightful. 

On May 13, 1981 an article appeared in the Chicago Tribune coined a phrase that would come to describe a powerful cultural movement.  The term was “young urban professionals”, or yuppies.  A yuppie was a young upwardly mobile professional noted for their devotion to certain elements of style and their conspicuous consumption of high end products. 

In the Yuppie Handbook published in 1986 it was humorously noted that the budding yupster could not live without:  gourmet coffee, a Burberry trench coat,  a Sony Walkman, expensive running shoes, a Cuisinart, a renovated kitchen with a double sink, smoked mozzarella from Dean & De Luca, a housekeeper, a mortgage, a Coach bag, a Gucci briefcase, and a Rolex.  But more than just their accoutrements was their work-ethic.  The Handbook states, “A yuppie most nearly approaches sainthood when he or she is able to accomplish more things in a single day than is humanly possible.” 

The yuppie officially died on October 19, 1987, the day the stock market crashed and the country went into recession.  Partly in response to the economic woes the country entered into the indie/slacker/die-yuppie-scum sensibility. 

On March 15, 1991 Douglas Coupland publishes Generation X:  Tales for an Accelerated Culture in which he borrows the term from a book called Class that characterizes the group born in the mid-late sixties as “uninterested in status, money, or social standing.”  Kurt Cobain and Nirvana, Seattle grunge, and MTV’s the Real World come on the scene.  There is a backlash against the driven, workaholic consumerism; and a quest for authentic, original, meaningful living. 

However, as the Gen X slackers and hipsters age and mature they find themselves in positions of power and influence and prosperity.  As one writer put it they now have “an establishment paycheck to make anti-establishment statements.”  What are they doing with this establishment paycheck?  Buying and consuming.  This has led to the re-branding of “Generation X” into “Yuppie 2.0”. 

Cornell economist Robert H. Frank, author of Luxury Fever says, “What most people fail to anticipate is that your sense of what you need and want is very elastic.  When your income rises, your consumption standard gradually adapts.” 

What is really amazing about this is how it came about.  Daniel Fierman writing to Yuppie 2.0 says, “With a powerful one-two punch of psychographic targeting and clever brand masking, marketers have hypnotized you with an idealized lo-fi image.”  Jeff Gordinier writes, “Dead rebel artists like Burroughs and Kerouac were long ago turned into useful “bohemian” brands, tailor-made for Gap ads…” One ad exec states, “We definitely take advantage of Gen X’s desire to seem indie…  our whole strategy is geared toward  people who want luxury but still want to hold on to the self-image they had in the grunge years.”  Fierman goes on to say, “The creation of identity via consumption is all an elaborate – and utterly effective – form of self-hypnosis.”  This leads to the conclusion that, “Compared to us, the eighties greedhead standard was practically restrained.” 

The most amazing thing for me is that the facts and the articles I am quoting from are found in the December 2006 edition of the magazine Details.  A magazine committed to high end consumption, style, and urban living. 

One of the morals of the story is that we shouldn’t mistake changes in style with real transformation.  The issue isn’t simply what people value and spend their money on, but the very human tendency to think that you are above the cultural, economic, and social forces that shape the world we live in.  To ignore this is to set ourselves up to be sifted and manipulated. 

What is important for us as a community of faith in 2007 is to examine ourselves, our way of life, our goals and aspirations to see if we are staying true to God’s calling for us.  Even the most defining of values and passionate convictions can be undermined or completely co-opted if we don’t critically examine ourselves.  Like the former Gen X now Yuppie 2.0, we can mistake style and rhetoric for lasting, transformative conviction and true authenticity. 

What starts out right can be twisted. 

We can hypnotize ourselves with the bright baubles of ease, style, and other people’s success.  We can sanctify our fear and compromise under the banners of “responsibility” and “stewardship.”  We can go part way and fool ourselves that we have gone all the way.  We can willingly have our attention re-directed away from God’s radical, wonderful call on our lives. 

We have to constantly be talking to the Lord and one another to encourage one another in our calling to serve the Lord and those around us.  We need to examine our hearts and lives and motivations.  We must actively ask others into our lives to examine them with us for toxic fear, self-deception, and compromise.  In our culture we need to be looking for the effects of the idols COMFORT and EASE that come subtly wrapped in the guise of choice, freedom, and preference.  We need total immersion in Scripture and a Kingdom Worldview if we are going to be able to distinguish the counterfeit from the real thing. 

One of the ways the ways our church can move from irrelevancy 1.0 – the place we were in for many years and out of which the Lord called us 2 years ago by having us sell a building, relocate, and reform our vision for ministry – to irrelevancy 2.0 is by not giving ourselves, heart and soul, to the vision that the Lord has given to us.  I don’t want us to mistake style for substance, or to go part way and fool ourselves that we have gone all the way in our obedience – in our love. 

I don’t think we’re approaching Irrelevancy 2.0 right now.  But the message is a reminder to my own soul to stay connected to the Lord and godly people; to not walk away from hard, inconvenient truths; to walk the way of the cross; to be involved at the Lord’s direction; to be stretched, broken, healed, resurrected.   

If not a lot has changed in the past six months it might be a good idea to talk with the Lord and someone you trust about what is going on.  It’s not that things HAVE to change, but if you’re locked into an unhealthy status quo it might be good to know. 

Peace

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Perspective On Demands and Opportunities

One thing I’ve learned from the past is that I don’t ever want to be a church of demanding obligation.  A place where shame and guilt and pressure to get involved are the order of the day (pun intended).  At the core of the ethos we are called to is a freedom with peace in following the Lord in the particular facets of the life and faith he has given the community and our unique aspect of it. 

Thomas Kelly describes this wonderfully when he writes, “…the Loving Presence does not burden us equally with all things, but considerately puts upon each of us just a few central tasks, as emphatic responsibilities.  For each of us these special undertakings are our share in the joyous burdens of love.”  He goes on to say, “Toward them all we feel kindly, but we are dismissed from active service in most of them.  And we have an easy mind in the presence of desperately real needs which are not our direct responsibility.  We cannot die on every cross, nor are we expected to.”  (italics in original) “Too many of us have too many irons in the fire.  We get distracted by the intellectual claim to our interest in a thousand and one good things, and before we know it we are pulled and hauled breathlessly along by an over-burdened program of good committees and good undertakings.  I am persuaded that this fevered life of church workers is not wholesome.  Undertakings get plastered on from the outside because we can’t turn down a friend.” 

I give you permission to say, “No.”  I especially give you permission to say no to me.  I also give you permission to say, “Yes.”  Yes to what the Lord has laid on your heart as a burden of love in whatever form or shape that burden takes.  What is most important is that you understand how, where, and with whom the Lord desires to express himself through your life.  That is our job as a community.  It’s called discipleship.  If you aren’t sure about your burden of love, ask.  Together we will pray, learn, seek, try, fail, and succeed. 

Discernment is a communal exercise.  He doesn’t play and hide-n-seek with us.  There isn’t a magic formula of divination to learning it.  But there is a process and a timing to his will (usually linked to character but not always).  One that we enter into together. 

My main point here is that you are invited into all that we are doing, but no one can be involved in everything.  You have the freedom and responsibility to keep things in balance as the Lord leads.  You are not a bondservant to this church, but to Him. 

Peace

Source:  Thomas R. Kelly “A Testament of Devotion” (Harper: San Francisco), 1941, p.83-84.

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What’s going on?

I have a unique position as a pastor.  I am invited into people’s lives in all kinds of situations and circumstances.  In the past couple of weeks alone I have talked with people loosing jobs; struggling with pornography, anger, lying; marriages under high stress; confused kids; folks overwhelmed with needs about the environment, hungry children, gangs, and the scourge of child prostitution in Atlanta; life and death health issues; and people truly “ticked” at God.  I usually get some form of question regarding God’s will (either as a longing or a curse).  It’s all some form of, “What’s going on?” At the risk of people thinking that I have some form of blanket prescription about such a huge and diverse set of issues, I do see common threads in many of these situations.  One thread in particular these days. 

Jonathan Edwards is one of (if not THE) greatest American theologians.  One of his great issues was talking about the role of passion (he called it “religious affections”).  He wrote, “Nothing is more apparent than this:  our religion takes root within us only as deep as our affections attract it.  There are thousands who hear the Word of God, who hear great and exceedingly important truths about themselves and their lives; and yet all they hear has no effect on them, makes no change in the way they live.”  (italics added) He goes on to write, “The Holy Scriptures clearly see religion as a result of affections, namely, the affections of fear, hope, desire, joy, sorrow, gratitude, compassion, and zeal.” 

Read the list again:  fear, hope, desire, joy, sorrow, gratitude, compassion, and zeal

Some are positive, there are some that we really like to have.  Others are negative, there are some we avoid at all costs.  None of them are passive.  All of them are responsive.  All of them are ordained and prescribed by God as important aspects of the way of discipleship. 

The one thread I see as we talk and pray is that there is no neutrality, no passivity.  Even the hard things like struggles with habitual sin are being used by God to get people out of the mundane death of mindless routine and rote religion.  One of the enduring images I have of discipleship is Jacob wrestling with the Lord.  In the NT we read about wrestling, running,  striving, and great exertion as metaphors for discipleship.  None of these things conveniently fit into a 20 minute quiet time and 5 minutes of throwing out a wish-list (what some people call prayer).  So in grace the Lord does in our lives just what he promises to do – bring glory to himself and transform us into Christlikeness through all manner of circumstances and situations by arousing our passion (affections) through hard time, trial, blessing, and joy.  The one common denominator I see in so many of our lives is that the Lord is bringing us fully into the vision he has given by not leaving us unaffected or unchanged by the great things he is showing us and letting us be a part of. 

I wish it was always through good, happy, satisfying, and affirming means and methods; but it isn’t.  It is also about failure, suffering, confusion, doubt, loss, and sorrow.  But in all things there is an overwhelming sense of dependence and striving to be close to him, to need him, to talk with him, to wait on him IF WE DON’T ABANDON GRACE.  If we don’t abandon the ground of our right relationship in our trials, then we can see them as instruments in the Lord’s hand of our transformtion into the image and likeness of Jesus.  We are maturing.  We are living. 

If we abandon grace then the trials are a curse, a failure.  In grace, Christ is the curse (Gal 3:13) and so we are not condemned in our failures and pain.  The trial (in the case of sin) reveals the limits of our love and our need to mature and get help in our devotion (good things).  In the case of painful trials not related to sin (waiting for a job, leaving one because what the company does is contrary to God’s way, etc.) grace directs us to prayer and patience as we wait for our Deliverer to act.  But we are not fooled about God’s love or devotion because things are hard.  In fact, sometimes these happen because the Lord wants to take us to a deeper joy of interdependence with others in the community who can help us out of their abundance in the face of our need.  This is particularly difficult joy to attain in a culture of rugged individualism and prideful self-reliance.   

For some of the trials we are in I have no answer.  We can only pray, watch, and wait.  But with faith, hope, and love.  Until the defeat of sin and death is finalized (it’s already begun) with Christ’s return to reign, we suffer in a corrupted creation.  There is no getting around it.  But we are not defined by the world around us.  We are defined by our union with Christ, in grace through faith alone. 

Peace

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Heroes of Mine

There are so many folks that are making major decisions and significant sacrifices in following the Lord in the vision he’s given us.  I would name names, but I don’t want to embarrass or dishonor anyone.  While I’m thinking of three specific folks right now, I can easily add another 6-8 other women and men who are being seriously challenged and encouraged in what it means to be a “follow me” disciple.   When I say “serious” I mean giving up jobs, moving, not taking jobs that would mean moving away, being “downwardly mobile” in income to stay close…  Things that make zero sense in a materialistic, consumer culture.  Things that if we use the American Dream as a standard of judgment means that they’re in a nightmare. 

I ran across the following passage from Dallas Willard who explains the significance of what people are doing better than I ever could.  He writes, “…one cannot be a disciple of Christ without forfeiting things normally sought in human life, and that one who pays little in the world’s coinage to bear his name has reason to wonder where he or she stands with God.  But the cost of nondiscipleship is far greater – even when this life alone is considered – than the price paid to walk with Jesus.

“Nondiscipleship costs abiding peace, a life penetrated throughout by love, faith that sees everything in the light of God’s overriding governance for good, hopefulness that stands firm in the most discouraging of circumstances, power to do what is right and withstand the forces of evil.  In short, it costs exactly that abundance of life Jesus said he came to bring (John 10:10).  The cross-shaped yolk of Christ is after all an instrument of liberation and power to those who live in it with him and learn the meekness and lowliness of heart that brings rest to the soul.” (Devotional Classics by Foster and Smith, p.16)

For those of you who are being faithful in midst of discipleship situations that are both perilous and terrifying on the one hand, yet at the same time are full of real life and meaning I just want to say how much I appreciate your example.  It gives me and the rest of our small community a greater strength to follow and an example of courage to emulate. 

You may think no one notices and that you are alone, but you are not.  You may not even feel like you have a choice.  That the Lord has cornered you.  Yet every time you have an easy out you don’t take it.  Every time you an opportunity to duck your head and go an easier way you don’t take the temptation.    The Lord sees.  We see.  He’s doing great things in and through you.  Thanks for being faithful to Him. 

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Chess Moves

In Acts 10 we read about the second Pentecost, how the Lord demonstrates that he is calling the Gentiles and not just the Jews by having the same outpouring as in Acts 2.  In the chapter we see the Lord calling Cornelius the Centurion, then talking with Peter.  Peter is amazed when he puts the timeline together, the vision, and the reality of what is going on (v.34-43). 

In November of 2006 I met a guy named Ray Gonzalez.  In talking about our multicultural vision he put me in touch with Dave Park.  In talking with Dave about needs for help in music ministry he put me in touch with Peter Choi, Jr.  In spending time with Dave and Peter I found friends whose hearts beat in rhythm with our vision.  I could listen and talk with these guys for hours.  I always come away refreshed and challenged. 

Peter shared a story yesterday that made me think of Acts 10 and God’s chess moves. 

Last week Peter and I went to Pearl Lane on the last day of the after-school program.  I wanted to see my guys before summer started, and Peter wanted to see the reality of what he hears me talking about all the time.  We drove into Chamblee.  I was giving directions and pointed out that Pearl Lane was just behind the big building that housed a Realtor and other business.  I talked with Peter about the area and the ministry and my desire to be able to office in or near Pearl lane so that I could really work in the neighborhood. 

Peter told me yesterday (almost a week to the day of going to Pearl Lane) that several months prior the folks he was working with to develop a new ministry had been given office space.  One of their cohort of visionaries had parents who owned a building and were willing to give them office space.  But the office looked out over some pretty unappealing low-income housing in run-down part of the city.  While the aesthetics were unappealing, the price was great – free.  Yet in the past several months they hadn’t taken advantage of the space.  It was sitting empty.  As it turns out the office was the office next door to Pearl Lane.  The office space, if I understood Peter correctly, looks out over Re Kim’s old house (see the post on chemo therapy and vacuum cleaners) and the ministry center. 

Peter said he didn’t say anything at Pearl Lane because he was too busy repenting for complaining about an office that overlooked such an ugly, forsaken place (my words not his).  Peter was amazed at the “slice of heaven” (his words) that he experienced in the chaos of the after-school program.  What we were both amazed about was the fact that the Lord was pulling our lives together before we ever knew each other existed and before we knew what we really wanted in ministry.  The Lord took these amazing visionaries (Peter, Dave, and the dozen other folks they are with) and brought our lives together in the Lord’s work .  They started with a specific vision for ministry only to see the Lord working in their lives without their knowing it or their consent in developing a ministry that was not exactly part of the original plan. 

One of my take-aways is that plans and visions are good and necessary. Just be sure that they have enough flexibility to respond to and follow God when he throws a wrench in the works.  I would have never talked with Ray without the crisis we were in (God changing the church’s direction).  I would have never talked with Dave about music ministry without a separate the crisis of loosing people.  I would have never invited Peter along except for the need for more help in an under-staffed after-school program.  Nowhere in my plans were the recruitment of talented, visionary Korean-Americans to partner with in ministry.  I’m sooo glad that God has better plans than I do! 

Our job is to obey as we go.  His job is to provide the vision, the means, and the resources to do what he is calling us to.  And he does so with abundance, delightful surprises, crisis, and dependence on him. 

Peace

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